Taking a pause in covering the FYCV material,
the following is a reflection on "threshold conversations" and "listening evangelization" from Forming Intentional Disciples by Sherry A. Weddell:
A threshold conversation is a supportive, inviting,
open-ended, prayerful act of listening evangelization. In such conversations,
we must listen to more than the facts: we need to hear the emotion and meaning
behind the story as well. During a threshold conversation, the goal is not
catechizing or correcting their ideas — no matter how wildly inaccurate their
beliefs or perceptions of the faith or the Church might be. It is also critical
to remember that a threshold conversation is not faith sharing. During this
conversation, we focus on listening to the other and set aside the need to
share our own story. Neither is it counseling or apologetics, and certainly a
threshold conversation is never judgmental.
Boarding a plane, a man was in my assigned aisle seat. He apologized but explained that he was
undergoing cancer treatment and needed to be able to get to the restroom
easily. I sat next to him in his assigned seat, I said, “If you want to talk
about it, I’m available. I worked my way through graduate school on a cancer
unit.” “Mark,” then began a conversation about mortal illness, suffering, family,
and hope. After an hour, I felt a clear
prompting of the Holy Spirit: “Where is God in all this for you?” The
conversation took off again with even greater energy about God, faith,
Christianity, family, life, death, and hope. When Mark left the plane, he gave
me his card, and I told him that I would pray for him. Mark died a few months
ago, and I still pray for him.